"Time heals," many people say.
It may.
It may help dull your pain.
But the medicine of time,
taken by itself,
is not sure.
Time is neutral.
What helps is what you do with time."
(From "Living when a Loved One has Died)

Time has dulled the pain. Taken away much of the denial (the "I can't believe she's dead").
But, sometimes, time, is all one can do.
--Kathy